Posts Tagged ‘kindness’
LET’S BE POLITE —-
Posted August 4, 2016
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Let’s be polite to our helpers and those who serve us
Cook maid, sweeper, washer man, or everyone who help us in any capacity. Most of all to the senior parents who depend on us and our spouse and the most adorable gift of Almighty our children!
IT HURTS LESS WHEN SOMEONE CARES
— the lady in blue dress is sweeper in Hamdard Public School. Her mother Irshad bibi also served for many years. how great these people are who clean the litter we spread
When i embraced her it was something out of the world joy for her and for me too. Love is most beautiful fragrant feeling.
Real love—–
Posted May 28, 2015
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A man who treats his relatives well
in order to return their good treatment
of him shows no real love
for them.
The man who really shows love
for his relatives is one who
treats them well
despite their being unkind to him.
Hadith of Al-Bukhaari
Your Mother—
Posted March 13, 2015
on:- In: Humanity | Love
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A man thus addressed the Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h):
‘O’ Messenger of God, who rightfully deserves the best treatment from me?’
‘Your mother,’ The Prophet said.
“Then who?’
‘your mother’ replied the Prophet
The man asked again.
‘Your mother’ replied the Prophet
‘Then who?’
‘Your mother’ said the Prophet
“The man asked once more,
‘Then who?’
‘Your father,’ said the Prophet.
Hadith of Al-Bukhari and Muslim on the authority of Abu Hurayrah
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(She is my very respected dear sister in law who spends her night in worshiping Allah and never hurts any one with her words or deeds. May she live long to illuminate us with her wisdom. She’s very literary and an institute within herself. Very hospitable, humble and always smiling )
Intention is an alchemic treatment that can turn base into noble gold.It is sometimes interpreted that good intentions justify bad deeds too and turn sins creditable. This is entirely wrong. Sin is always a sin, no matter how noble the intention may be. For example if someone breaks into a house to steal with the intention of giving away as alms whatever he would steal, would be a thief deserving the set punishment. His good intentions would not earn him any merit nor would his sin be pardoned.
Similarly if;
- One treats his children with love because it earns him merit
- Hospitality to guests is an act of merit
- Planting a sapling or plant in the house so that it may one day be of use of some man or animal and please the onlooker would be a good deed
- If a woman dresses herself in beautiful attire and wears ornaments and adorns herself to please her husband and if a man remains clean and neat to please his wife, both are good deeds
- If a watch is worn to know the value of time which is indented to be spent on good deeds, it is an act that earns merit
May Almighty guide us all to lead a pious and healthy life to help others and be rewarded
Doing good to the neighbor
Posted March 3, 2015
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Neighbor’s rights are many and are ordained by Allah. The holy Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h)said; “Gabriel advised me so much regarding neighbor’s rights that I began to suspect that he would be included among the heirs”
The first and foremost and the principal right the neighbor is not to cause him pain, trouble or sorrow; moreover, helping him in his need, sending him occasional gifts, sharing his joys and sorrows are all meritorious and rewarding acts. If a neighbor is hungry, regardless of color cast or religion, rich or poor, it is not meritorious to feed him but also a bounden duty.
Cordial and courteous behavior is very pleasing to Allah and is also rewarding.
God gives and forgives
Posted February 26, 2015
on:There was a man who used to give loans to poor people. When his assistant used to go to them to recover the loans, the master would urge him to be forgiving to those who were not able to pay back his loans with ease, believing that, in that way, perhaps God would show him forgiveness.
When the man came face to face with the Almighty, He forgave him.
Hadith of Al-Bukhari and Muslim on the authority of Abu Hurayrah
Paradise
Posted July 2, 2013
on:The holy Prophet Muhammad sallallaho alaihewassalam said,; He who visits the sick continues to remain in the fruit garden of Paradise until he returns.
Inspire to Aspire
Posted November 12, 2011
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Umar’s Wife Acts as Midwife
History repeats itself, but I doubt because the event I am going to write just
now is and can be read-only in the books. Years have passed, but I never
happened to read or hear any such event been repeated. If any of my readers have
any experience of such events in and around the whole full world, please do
share.
Amir Ul mu’minin Hazrat Umar Farooq (radiyallahu ‘anhu) during
the time of a caliphate, used to patrol the streets and suburbs of Medina
himself during the night to be abreast with the happenings.
One night during his regular night patrols he saw a camel-hair tent pitched in
an open place. He had never before seen such kind of shelter so he got closer
to the shelter. There he saw a man sitting outside the tent, and he heard moaning
and groaning coming from inside the tent. Umar (radiyallahu ‘anhu) after greeting
the stranger asked him about him and his problem. The stranger told me that he
was from the desert. He had come to seek help from the Amir Ul mu’minin Hazrat
Umar Farooq. He refused to share with Umar (radiyallahu ‘anhu. Hazrat Umar
insisted that maybe he could help him at that hour of his need at night. So the
stranger told him that his wife is having labor pains, and there is No one with
her to help.
Hazrat Umar (radiyallahu ‘anhu) got up instantly n headed towards his home. On
reaching home, he broached the subject to his wife Umme Kulthoom, “Allah ta’ala
has brought you an opportunity to receive great blessings.” What is it O, Mir
Ul mu’minin?”
Umar said,” there is a poor desert woman’s in labor pains out in addition to
that none to attend her. ”Umme Kulthoom (radiyallahu ‘anha) said that she was
ready to help if it pleases Umar.
Umme Kulthoom (radiyallahu ‘an hu) was after all daughter of
Bibi Fatima (radiyallahu ‘anha) and granddaughter of Rasulullah (sallallahu
alaihi wassallam)
Umar said, ” then you should make all due haste. Also take some butter, pan,
supplies and other necessities needed during the childbirth.”
Umme Kulthoom left for the place with all things required there in the tent.
Umar followed her. She entered the tent while Umar made a fire and occupied
himself with cooking which those people could eat. After short while Umme
Kulthoom (radiyallahu ‘anha) called out from inside the tent, “Amir al
mu’minin, congratulate your friend on the birth of a son.”
The person was quite embarrassed when he heard the title of Amir Ul mu’minin
and realized the position of the person who had been serving him. But Umar
radiyallahu ‘anha) put all his fears at rest, saying, ‘That is all right, there
is nothing to worry about.”
He then placed the pan near the tent, asking his wife to take it and feed the
woman. She fed her and returned the pan to Umar. Then Umar asked the Bedouin to
eat also as he had been awake all night. Having served Umar and his wife
returned home telling the Bedouin < ” come tomorrow, I shall see what I
can do for you.”
Is there any king, nay a petty chief or even an ordinary middle-class person of
today who will take his wife out at late night in the wilderness to attend a sick
stranger woman n prepares food. So dear readers we should realize that unless
we follow the footsteps of those Allah fearing people, we cannot deserve the
special blessings of Almighty Allah