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The longest relationship I’ve had…

Posted on: March 16, 2015


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What is relationship? I don’t really understand. Is it the fondness, love or be familiar  with someone, something, some incidence, happening or what———

One of my friends who passed away years back, used to say that Tanveer likes everything that exits on this earth; a pebble, a rainbow, clouds, an ant, a paper, a child, fire, anything, anything that has name——

And that’s trueJ I know that God is beautiful so whatever He has created has some beauty in it.

I was a student of 6th grade and very immature in 1963. I went to the market to buy some grocery. There I saw a man who had also come to buy. He was the ugliest man I ever saw. (I’m sorry to say this) I looked at him for some time. I thought that he’s so ugly, no girl will marry him. A thought straight away came to my mind——I will marry him —— I don’t know why I was so concerned about that man, who was a stranger. I didn’t know who he was where he lived or what he did——-just knew nothing about him or his whereabouts——— he also glanced at me as I was constantly looking at him. I don’t know what he thought about me—- but before leaving I just passed him a sweet smile and came back home. I didn’t even share with anybody at home. I think my innocent harmless intention pleased God, as the husband he chose for me was one of the most handsome men I saw and see around. So whenever I looked at my husband and his manly splendor, reminded me of that manJ!  My husband was a beautiful gift and reward of my innocent and pure likeness by God. Children and people all were more simple and innocent in those times.

I loved my husband so much that words fail to describe my love for him. He died in the hospital being ill for two years of brain injury.  I don’t know what made me sing all the way back home loudly in the car. No one dared to stop me as everyone was so touched and knew my mental condition—– jeevan k safar me rahi milte hein bicher jane ko, aur de jaate hein yaadein tunhai mei turpaane ko—translation;  in the course of life companions meet but to depart—- leaving behind their memories to grieve and bereave in aloneness

It’s an old Indian song and it haunts me still so I have a very long relationship with this song

May the soul of that man (if he’s dead, and my dear husband’s soul rest in peace, amen) Even last night I saw my husband in dream. He hugged me!  29th March 1984 was his last day of life in this mortal world. Though it’s been so long that he’s no more but I wait for him especially in the evening————

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25 Responses to "The longest relationship I’ve had…"

Bravo – Ma God Bless you and bring much more joy, happiness, wealth, health and spirit!

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Thank you I need prayers

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It’s so touchy Mrs Rauf. It brought tears to my eyes. .I know you very well and I know that you truly loved every thing under the sun

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What a beautiful story….thank you so much for sharing this. Janet

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Thank you dear Janet blessings and peace

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The stories was touch me, thanks for sharing. Have a great day and i send a cyber hug for you 🙂

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thank you, I need one 🙂 hugs for you

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Beautiful! touched the most intimate cords of heart! May there always be lots of love in your life!!!

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boht shukria Fawzia ji

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Thank you for sharing with us so special moments of your life…. Eternal love is beautiful 🙂 God bless you !

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thank you dear ady, blessings and peace to you

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I have seen there are times when God rewards us for some of our unintentional kind , humane acts. Your story adds another live example to this.
Life and death is a part and participle of earth. I know exactly how it pains to lose someone, to live with such golden memories, songs that connect with our feelings of the departed etc, because I have also lost someone. May all the deceased souls rest in peace. Aameen.

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so touchy..!!Thanks for sharing.You are sooo strong MashAllh..i know how its feel, Losing someone you love infornt of your eyes.! Seriously noooo words…May Allah bless you

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Thank you so much. your words give me courage

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[…] The longest relationship I’ve had… […]

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This is heart-touching to say the least. What a beautiful story and message.

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Thank you, i’m humbled , blessings and peace to you

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So sorry about your husband..

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Thank you for understanding

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god bless you, husband and all

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Just so touchy Tanveerji..

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Thank you Pamela ji for understanding. God bless you, amen

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Lovely post ❤

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